i will change!!!

"If A is a success in life, then A equals x plus y plus z. Work is x; y is play; and z is keeping your mouth shut."

       All my life, i have had countless of reasons & opportunities to change myself, but i didn't do it. Like they said, Where there's a will, there's a way; and so are excuses! I was afraid of these changes, i was afraid everything might change or what if those changes are wrong? But i was so wrong, so i was never move forward & always stuck with my lame-self...
    Then, a few months ago i saw a qoute form Albert Einstein, he said " Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new ", but i still don't have the reason, a real reason for me to change myself to be someone i can proud of & looking for the answer within myself & with the help of internet...

     So first, Make the decision to stop being average. This is one of the most important steps to success in life.  You may know about setting goals but many people overlook the importance of this first step.  You need to make the decision, once and for all, to stop letting yourself be just another average Joe.  This is the time to decide if you are really serious about being successful in anything you do.  Because this kind of success requires a mindset that is not that of the rest of the heard.  It requires the ability to think and act outside the box and be willing to make the changes necessary to reaching your goals.  So it is now time to pull away from the heard and start thinking for yourself.


      Second, i need to realize my dreams. But this will be hard, i am not some one who had something i dream of, i am just an average man with just a normal needs, but then i remember one thing, when i was still my high school, my teacher once said " never let your parents cry because of your failure but for oneself success!!! " My parents who never give up on me, they are my only supporter, they are someone who always pray for me in their prayer & someone who never tired of giving me motivations & advices, i really wanted them to see that they that i had become someone, i don't wanna make them worry about me anymore!!! I really wanted them to feel that they were successful in raising me up!! Then there's my girlfriend, who now become my back-bone, she's my cheerleader & she's too my motivation in becoming successful .

      The thirdstep is Setting my Goals. I wanna have good job, a job that i like & so i can get money. Then i wanna help my parents with the money i have & save some of it for my future. Further more, i wanna buy a ride, because it's easier to go anywhere & sure i wanna have my own house, i am not asking for a bungalow or castle, i just need a shelter for myself & ofcourse, get marry with my girlfriend & have 2 children & so i become a perfect man!!!

      Then the fourth step, it is how to keep myself stay motivated & sure it will be the hardest part among these steps. I must keep the pace, i need to learn the skill of keeping that fire going inside me. Without this fuel of desire and a clear resolve i’ll be dead in the water in a week. i need to find what works for me and stick with it & whenever i feel i start to fade or i am start questioning why am i doing what i am doing, i will just need to go back to that pad of paper and re-read my description of my dreams. This will often re-kendal the fire and get you back on track.

     Finally the last step is to enjoy the process. Just as important as the first 4 steps, this one requires little effort but is often missed & notice that I didn’t say, enjoy yourself when you reach your dream. You will never be happy because there will be a new one right around the corner. Success in life is not about reaching a final destination but instead it’s the process of constantly upgrading your life to a better version.  So, if you are just grazing with the heard, I won’t blame you for feeling down.  But if you are in the process of pursuing the life that you desire for yourself and your family than I hope that you find yourself satisfied RIGHT NOW as well as in the future.

p/s sometimes it is hard, but there's always next time, we're human after all & no one is perfect, so it's okay to fail, just try again!! Remember, " he who wills the end, wills the means! "